Life

This page is a collection of general life advice.

The best thing you can do is live for you. Not for anyone else. Let people guide you but don’t ever let them overrule you. You make yourself, so ensure that the you you’re creating is authentic.

Don’t talk to anybody romantically until you know who you are first. People won’t be able to connect with you on that level if you can’t first connect with yourself. Also, don’t bother “holding” anyone down but yourself. People are fickle, you exist until you don’t.

Don’t be afraid to put your voice out there, even if it opposes seniority.

Learn moderation. Don’t become an alcoholic because you didn’t wanna seem like a drag to some drunkhappy friends.

Everything you do, learn how to do it well. And then learn how to turn that well into near perfect. Always strive for the best when your work is representing you.

Deletion ain’t nothing but an action boo. Somebody unimportant is annoying you? Delete! Instagram feed making you too mad? Delete! Friend refuses to do right by you? Delete! Of course you need to develop communication tactics but some people don’t deserve that time and don’t you waste it on them either. Anything you don’t want in your life, you can get rid of. Remember that. You don’t have to stay suffering.

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